Posts on Personal Development

My Own Naw Ruz: Finding Growth in New Beginnings

My Own Naw Ruz: Finding Growth in New Beginnings

This Naw Ruz marks more than spring, it marks a fresh start, reclaiming myself after years of feeling paused. [4 min read]

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Growing Up Gay: How Early Rejection and Acceptance Shaped My Identity

Growing Up Gay: How Early Rejection and Acceptance Shaped My Identity

A candid reflection on early experiences as a gay Asian man, exploring culture, community, and self-discovery during my college years. [7 min read]

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10 Invalidating Phrases in Relationships: Why They Hurt and What to Say Instead

10 Invalidating Phrases in Relationships: Why They Hurt and What to Say Instead

Drawing from personal experience, this highlights 10 common invalidating phrases that can damage relationships and offers alternatives for healthier communication. [4 min read]

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What Happens When the Need to Please Others Undermines Your Self-Worth?

What Happens When the Need to Please Others Undermines Your Self-Worth?

Discover how the journey from a middle school people-pleaser to a self-advocate has shaped relationships, self-worth, and outlook on life. [6 min read]

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What Moving to Austin Taught Me About Friendship, Family, and Self-Growth

What Moving to Austin Taught Me About Friendship, Family, and Self-Growth

Moving to Austin, TX, was meant to be a fresh start. Instead, it turned into a journey of unexpected challenges and profound lessons about friendship, family, and personal growth. [7 min read]

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Is the Paralysis of Overthinking Holding You Back from Personal Growth?

Is the Paralysis of Overthinking Holding You Back from Personal Growth?

Overthinking can be both a tool for deep reflection and a barrier to personal growth. [4 min read]

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Is It Normal to Feel Like a Walking Contradiction?

Is It Normal to Feel Like a Walking Contradiction?

Exploring the paradoxes within, understanding why one can be both needy and independent, and seeking balance in life and relationships. [4 min read]

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Lost in Thought This Mother's Day

Lost in Thought This Mother's Day

On Mother's Day, there's a mix of gratitude for family and a restless want for the vibrant life left behind in the city. [3 min read]

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Finding a Place to Call Home...

Finding a Place to Call Home...

A gay's experience through the Midwest reveals an unexpected sense of belonging in Columbus, OH, highlighting the minority experience. [4 min read]

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Behind DE's Smile Lies a Story of Deception and Discovery

Behind DE's Smile Lies a Story of Deception and Discovery

Reflecting on 16 years: A story of trust, manipulation, and cultural complexities, as lived by a group of friends at Wayne State University. [5 min read]

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The Transition from Party Animal to...Something Else?

The Transition from Party Animal to...Something Else?

Transitioning from the vibrant nightlife of your 20s to a more subdued social life in your 30s can be a perplexing journey. [5 min read]

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Debugging Life Lessons for a Code-Inspired Existence

Debugging Life Lessons for a Code-Inspired Existence

Understand how common coding dilemmas mirror real-life challenges and explore practical solutions to navigate the complexities of both worlds. [6 min read]

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The Whirlwind of Millennial Existence

The Whirlwind of Millennial Existence

A guide through the whirlwinds of existential uncertainty, introspection, and the embrace of life's darker recesses that make the human experience beautifully messy. [2 min read]

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